I am Alexandra, the founder of this website. I consider myself a sexual adventuress, goddess and a free-spirited woman.
I am a woman who has been living in doubt, shame about her sexuality, faced some nasty unsatisfying orgasm-free relationships, emotional dramas and lack of confidence when it comes to worthiness.
I am a woman who dared to overcome her sexual insecurities, fears, doubts about her own body, sexual needs, imperfections and despite all challenges embarked on a beautiful self-exploration healing journey of empowered conscious living and dating.
I am a woman who permits herself every day to explore, feel, be real, authentic and sexually express free of 'must' and 'shoulds', a woman who dared to choose creativity instead of just living.
I am a woman who learnt slowly to accept herself despite all imperfection, accept and love her body, embrace her true feminine side and set on fire her inner sexual goddess power.
I am a woman just like YOU!
Today I'm living a conscious and honest relationship with the most important person: Myself.
I am an open-book. I talk freely about my sexual needs, desires and straightforward about what type of relationship I need and deserve.
Although, it was not always like that.
I came from a social background where sexually free women were classified as 'bitches.' My parents taught me to be a 'good girl.' Growing up, it was a massive confusion within me. I always felt more sexual than anyone I knew. My brain and heart (pussy) were constantly fighting. Trying to meet false social expectation (being a good girl) and the same time suppressing my authentic sexual self within.
For a very long time, I was ashamed, embarrassed, kept hiding and defeating my sexuality which made me unhappy and dissatisfied. Being someone else you are not, can be super exhausting.
One day it hit me. I can't continue living this lie. I can't wake up and be the 'good girl.' I want to expand and start blooming like a full colourful flower I am. I realised to do that I have to stop acting differently than I feel inside. I must accept myself just the way I am. I must permit myself to be the naughty, well-fucked, provocative unapologetic gorgeous sexual human being I truly am. I decided to stop controlling and suppressing my life and explore my sexuality deeper or rather say just become it!
From this point, I completely embraced my high sexual interest, drive, dirty mind and constant curiosity to experience something new and sexy. Now I feel lucky and look at my sexuality as the greatest gift. I am not unique. It's available for anyone, who’s willing to put the work in.
Sexuality and passion require a regular self-check-in, self-love, awareness and conscious decision-making about loving yourself no matter what. Similar as embarking on a spiritual path. It's a trial and error, fail and fulfilment process. It's life-long studying journey. One thing I realised, that the more you love yourself, the more you will be able to open up towards the world, your partner and will increase your chance of having an Orgasmic Lifestyle.
Embracing my true self and letting go limiting beliefs around my passion for sex has brought me tremendous adventures, lovers and creative ways to express myself and become overall happy and unapologetically sexy empowered female that I am today.
But enough about me. Let's talk about you.
I have created this website to share my personal stories of love, kink, sex, intimacy, consciousness, dating and relationship.
Buckle up, Girl. There will be some Wild Wet times coming in your way.
Few questions for you to warm up:
When was the last time you touched yourself?
When did you tell yourself: "I love you?" Without conditioning!
When was the last time you had multiple orgasms?
A what? - Now you are asking. One more reason to stick around and explore all six types of orgasms you could have!!!
Welcome to the Sexy Goddess Tribe!
Please allow me to give you a hand and guide you through this beautiful sexual-discovery.
Hope you will gain some new insights and inspiration through this site.
“Less Stress, More Sex”
Feel free to comment, interact or reach out to me if you have any questions!